I believe that successful therapy relies on the relationship built between you and your therapist. I seek to build a relationship with each person I work with that is based in mutual trust. My style is warm, non-judgmental, collaborative, and humorous. I utilize an integration of evidence-based approaches, including CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy), ACT (acceptance and commitment therapy), and DBT (dialectical behavior therapy), combined with a psychodynamic ("talk therapy") relational approach, which allows me to provide tools for coping based on an understanding of your history, needs, and strengths. In working with couples and relationship struggles, I pull from both EFT (Emotion Focused Therapy) and the Gottman Method. I've found that by pulling from different modalities, I can better tailor the interventions to the person in front of me, leaning into your strengths.
Please note: Therapy is not magic (I wish it was), and I don't have a magic wand (although that would be awesome), that means that the odds of being "all better" after just one session are low. Change is a process; therapy is a journey, and some journeys are longer than others. Luckily, the steps to start that process are simple: getting to know each other, setting goals, and figuring out what works for you. For a bit more about my approach, check out my home page.
As a bisexual cisgender woman, I always enjoy working with members of the LGBTQ+ community, and strive to be an ally for everyone under the LGBTQ+ umbrella, including queer, asexual, trans*, non binary, and gender nonconforming clients. I also love working with members of the kink and poly or ENM communities as well. I practice in a way that focuses on your strengths and resilience. Both celebrating these identities and acknowledging the societal and cultural challenges that can follow them.
I was raised in a STEM-focused family, full of scientists and engineers. I also studied in a STEM field, including receiving my BA in Organismal Biology from Scripps College in 2009, and completing multiple research projects throughout college as part of the Bronner lab at the California Institute of Technology. Through these experiences I have come to understand the unique cultures of both academic and industry STEM fields. This led me to write my dissertation on the experiences of cisgender female programmers in the San Francisco Bay Area. Through experience and research, I have become attuned to the ways in which the cultures of STEM and technology companies, can interact with your other identities, and am experienced in helping people to navigate this complex issue. I also help those working in STEM use the strengths of their familiarity with a scientific approach: looking at the reasons for various beliefs and behaviors, exploring the data that we all gather and the stories we tell around that data (we are creatures of predictive modeling based on past experience), and running behavioral and thought experiments together to try new approaches.
Much of my graduate training was in community clinics (the Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Clinic in Berkeley) and in college counseling centers at Mills College, Stanford University, and the University of San Francisco. I have treated a wide variety of undergraduate and graduate students of both traditional and non-traditional ages. I love working with people at this inflection point in life, as we're questioning assumptions and norms, and finding who and how we want to be in the world. I often work with people studying in or working in high pressure fields, such as law, business, medicine, science, and technology. Often times the same drive towards excellence that propels us towards some of these demanding careers can also add pressure to perform, entwine with our identity or self worth, and perpetuate self criticism. I also love to work with people working in creative pursuits, such as art or music. I find that in both cases, part of the task in therapy is learning to be curious about, and work with, how your individual brain works best, rather than getting caught in how we're told it "should" work.
As the granddaughter of Holocaust survivors, I understand the impact of intergenerational trauma first hand. Whether or not we know the specific stories of what our ancestors experienced, we can feel them in our reactions, emotions, and beliefs. Both intergenerational and childhood trauma involve implicit experiential learning about how to stay as safe as we can in painful circumstances. We build beliefs about ourselves, the world, and other people that guide how we see and experience life. Traumatic memories are stored in a part of our brain that is focused on surviving, and they don't distinguish past from present. Believe it or not, that's meant to help us survive - if we or our ancestors have experiences and attack from a tiger and we see a shadow of that threat, our nervous system doesn't want us to waste time wondering if it's a bunny or a tiger, or thinking the tiger was from long ago, it just wants action and safety. Part of our task is integrating those memories with the timestamp if we no longer live among "tigers," and updating our understanding and ways of responding if the "tigers" are still among us.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist (PSY31769), NPI 1376060517, with a private practice in Orinda, California. I have been providing direct clinical mental health services since 2013 and graduated from the Wright Institute with a Psy.D. (doctorate in clinical psychology) in 2018. I have provided therapy services in community clinics and college counseling centers, including a Postdoctoral Fellowship year at the University of San Francisco Counseling and Psychological Services, and a Doctoral Internship year at Stanford University Counseling and Psychological Services. I began my private practice in 2020, and continue to expand my knowledge every year through continuing education trainings.
I love DnD, playing board games and video games, reading books and comics, watching superhero movies and anime, and more. I always enjoy working with my fellow geeks. Imagination and openness to creative outlets are strengths that can connect us. I believe in the power of art and stories in therapy and in life.
Hobbies and self care are an important part of keeping us happy and healthy. For me, that is expressing myself through art. In fact, all of the paintings on this website are my work. I enjoy bringing whatever your hobbies and strength are into therapy. Is it hard to put how you feel into words? We can try drawing, singing, or acting it out, or whatever else suits your personality.
I have a young kid (currently 3 years old), and am navigating the joys and challenges of parenting. If you are a parent or are hoping to become one, I would love to talk to you about it. As someone who has navigated infertility, loss, IVF, and finally parenthood, all of these topics are near to my heart.
I may or may not be biased... but she tolerated me putting this flower on her head, so that has to count for something, right?